Module 2, Lesson 4. The single most useful question in this course.
If this changed, would my purpose still be served?
Yes β it is a method. No β it is a principle.
Most of what people defend fiercely turns out to be a habit with a long service record.
Name the element you are most attached to β declare it unavailable β generate ten alternatives (push past the sulky first three) β compare the best two against the original, scored on purpose rather than affection β keep, switch, or keep-and-change.
Most people keep the original β but it is now a chosen idea rather than an inherited one.
If ________________________ by ____________, I will change approach.
Write it while you are calm. It is far harder to decide fairly in the middle.