Module 2, Lesson 1. Use whenever something is going wrong and you cannot think straight.
| Control What I choose |
Influence What I can affect but not decide |
Neither Not mine to move |
Rumination lives in the third column. Move one item into the first and take it this week.
Known (facts only) | Unknown but knowable (write who to ask) | Unknowable (write "if X, my first three steps are…")
Extended exhale: in for 4, out for 6–8. Two minutes. Nobody can see you doing it.
Orienting: five things you can see, four you can hear, three you can feel.
Module 2, Lesson 1. Use whenever something is going wrong and you cannot think straight.
| Control What I choose |
Influence What I can affect but not decide |
Neither Not mine to move |
Rumination lives in the third column. Move one item into the first and take it this week.
Known (facts only) | Unknown but knowable (write who to ask) | Unknowable (write "if X, my first three steps are…")
Extended exhale: in for 4, out for 6–8. Two minutes. Nobody can see you doing it.
Orienting: five things you can see, four you can hear, three you can feel.